I've noticed that many people are just looking for one-night stands. I just want to find a long-term friend, not a one-night stand or a short-term relationship. Last time I met someone in their 30s, we were chatting nicely at first, but then he suddenly sent me a disgusting picture. I was furious! If you're over 35 and also looking for a long-term friend, or a soulmate, then we can become good friends.